Some have this silly idea that God picks and chooses those He will save. I heard someone tell me that just the other day. That would compare to us choosing just some of our children. God is amazingly loving and beyond all we can ask or think. He said if you know how to give good things to your children, then how much more will He give good things to us?
Matthew 7:9 Or what man is there of you, if his son asks him for a loaf of bread, will hand him a stone? 10 Or if he asks for fish, will hand him a serpent? 11 If you then, evil as you are, know how to give good and advantageous gifts to your children, how much more will your Father Who is in heaven [perfect as He is] give good and things to those who keep on asking Him! AMPC
God is far better at loving than we are, He is love. You have to admit, He has already gone through great lengths to show us His love. He loves the world so much He gave us Jesus to save us through Him, so why would He throw some of us in hell and take some of us with Him?
See how silly that is? The Word is misinterpreted all the time. We have to take the time to know God so He can explain things to us. Not only will He explain things to us, but as you take the time to know Him, you know His character. When you know His character you will know He wouldn't do such a thing. The truth is many reject God and if that is the case they have chosen hell.
2 Peter 3:9 The Lord does not delay and is not tardy or slow about what He promises, according to some people’s conception of slowness, but He is long-suffering (extraordinarily patient) toward you, not desiring that any should perish, but that all should turn to repentance. AMPC
It is not God’s will that one should perish. But if we choose to do so: we can choose to ignore God. We can reject Him, and then of course we have picked hell over God.
Matthew 22:2 The kingdom of heaven is like a king who gave a wedding banquet for his son 3 And sent his servants to summon those who had been invited to the wedding banquet, but they refused to come. 4 Again he sent other servants, saying, Tell those who are invited, Behold, I have prepared my banquet; my bullocks and my fat calves are killed, and everything is prepared; come to the wedding feast. 5 But they were not concerned and paid no attention [they ignored and made light of the summons, treating it with contempt] and they went away—one to his farm, another to his business,7 [Hearing this] the king was infuriated; and he sent his soldiers and put those murderers to death and burned their city. 8 Then he said to his servants, The wedding [feast] is prepared, but those invited were not worthy. 9 So go to the thoroughfares where they leave the city [where the main roads and those from the country end] and invite to the wedding feast as many as you find. 10 And those servants went out on the crossroads and got together as many as they found, both bad and good, so [the room in which] the wedding feast [was held] was filled with guests.
The King sounds pretty frustrated! He invited everyone; those who claimed to be His were too busy and so He went elsewhere. He went everywhere —out of His way to invite everyone, still some were not interested!
Matthew 22:11 But when the king came in to view the guests, he looked intently at a man there who had on no wedding garment. 12 And he said, Friend, how did you come in here without putting on the [appropriate] wedding garment? And he was speechless (muzzled, gagged). 13 Then the king said to the attendants, Tie him hand and foot, and throw him into the darkness outside; there will be weeping and grinding of teeth. 14 For many are called (invited and summoned), but few are chosen. AMPC
Everyone is invited but only those who weren't too busy to come are chosen. That man tried to sneak in when it was too late. He hadn’t prepared for the most precious wedding ever. Now is the time to decide if you have time for God or not, so you can prepare for the wedding banquet.
—Who doesn't get ready for a wedding?